I'm gonna give y'all a small secret, see ahh, when you support a man, he becomes indepted to you, men are very psychologycal, more psychologycal than emotional.
A man can leave a women he loves to marry a woman he feels indepted to for her support, that is why most rich men today ended with ladies they knew when they were broke, not because they didn't fall in love later on with another woman, but because at every point they still feel indepted to the one who supported them.
Y'all know stories of celebrities who after flying round the world still came back to settle with girls they dated when they had nothing, does it mean they didn't meet girls who were more sexy, more beautiful, more successful, more educated and all that?
No, of course they did meet better people, but they came back for their first love because they feel indepted to them for their support, that's the power of support.
Now I'm not saying you have to start going around looking for broke guys to support, Hell No.
You can still support an already made man, you can still support a man who's a billionaire, and that is why support goes beyond what only money can do.
You don't need to empty Your account to support him, you don't have to stall your own dreams and visions to support him, it goes beyond what only money can do. eg.
1. "Domestic support"
Now I'm not saying you should literally become his mom or his maid, Hell No, 80% of single men now can cook and do all other chores marvelously well, so coming to do dishes or cook and wash for wouldn't really be such a big burden lifted, but he would hold it in very high esteem.
Learn how to cook well, even if its just one recipe, come over and do it for him, scattere his sense with a very delicious meal, wash and iron his dirty cloths, put his house in order and go, he would not need revelation to tell him you're a home keeper, and home keepers are what men need.
2. "Spiritual support"
Like I already said, support goes beyond what money alone can do, not all men can pray, but all men needs prayers, everything isn't about being a slay queen, sometimes make out time and pray for him.
The place of spiritual support in a man's life cannot be filled or replaced with any other thing, men are carried away always, learn to be his pillar in place of prayer.
He might not be there to see you supporting him spiritually, but any man you constantly pray for becomes tied to you spiritually, this is because you have taken charge of his life in the spirit.
Whenever you pray your voice becomes familiar in the spiritual relm to cause change in his life, at this point, he dare not mess with you, and you can also actually pray him into being your man because you have taken charge of him spiritually.
3. "Mental support"
Everyman needs a woman who can add to whatever he already has mentally, when a man discovers you're mentally loaded, he makes you his PA, even without your knowledge.
He does not do or take any critical decision without asking for your consent, and when a man develops the habit of seeking your mental support, you have secured a very crucial place in his life.
Make out time to ask him about his dreams and vision, about his plans and dealings, throw in one or two important advice, give him good and useful suggestions.
Always try as much as you can to advice him, motivate him when he is down, use the scriptures if you're familiar with them, talk him into enduring and pushing.
Find out about his career, trade or business, learn things about what he does and suggest them to him, he might not act like he notices but he does, and would always regard you at every point.
4. "Financial support"
Now before you start exaggerating you don't need to empty your account to support him like I said earlier, what matters is that you show that support.
A billionaire can be supported with 1 thousand naira and it will make sense to him, but the magic is in the way you support him with the money.
Sometimes use your own money to cook for him, even if you have to save it for sometime, surprise with a very delicious meal which he didn't give you money to make, even if he's a billionaire that single act will be very dear to him.
Know the perfume he uses, get even if its one for him, know his sizes in everything, especially boxers, buy a dozen of it for him, men love to have boxers in large quantity because they seldom wash like women.
Buying him boxers in large quantity might seem like a simple act, but each time he takes that boxes up to wear, he'll remember you.
90% of men were raised by their mothers, so men literally grew up having something's done for them by their mom without them asking.
A little act towards that same direction makes them feel you can take care of them like their mother, and they will quickly consider you for keeps.
Find out his hobbies, use your money to help him enjoy those hobbies sometimes, if he is a fruit lover, a single apple everyday means the world to him.
If he likes fashion, you can surprise him with a nice shirt on weekend and say baby wear this to church on Sunday, he will hold you in very high esteem, replace some of the very important things in the house by yourself.
You don't have to do this often, just once in a while, 90% of men out there has sense, he will become indepted to you ineviatebly.
By now the combination of your first date decency, the very moral some visit and the petty support tells him you're a good woman, at least better from others so far, even an impotent man would want a package like this for keeps.
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By Emmanuel Vidon Jakes
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